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Ain't Nobody Waiting On You To Make Up Your Mind, Sir!

Updated: Oct 26, 2023

Alright, let's talk modern dating, folks. It's a wild jungle out there, and if you're not careful, you could find yourself kicked to the curb faster than you can say, "Let's get some coffee."

So, you've found someone who feeling, huh? Cool. You might be thinking, "I'll play it cool, take it slow, no pressure." But let me tell you, this isn't some old-school romance novel where you can afford to be the mysterious, brooding figure in the background. Nah, this is 2023, where people have the attention span of a TikTok video and the dating game moves faster than a Ferrari on an open highway.

These days, finding a 'good thing' is rare. If you notice her, others are noticing her too. Everyone's on the lookout for it, like it's some kind of treasure at the end of a rainbow. And by 'good thing', I'm not talking about how big her butt is or how fine she is. The 'good thing' is that special something, that magic mix of charm, humor, kindness, confidence, and a sprinkle of mystery that makes you stand out from the crowd.

If you've found someone who's lit your fire, don't just stand there gawking. Hold on to them and make your presence known. Be a part of their life, show them you're interested, and make them feel like they're the bee's knees. Be the person they can't wait to see, not someone they barely remember. Be freaking consistent and make them a feel like a priority.

Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying you should turn into some clingy, obsessed stalker. But in the grand scheme of love and dating, being seen and remembered is super important. Skip a day, and you're heading straight for the 'who was that again?' zone. It's like you're in space, you've let go of your spaceship, and now you're floating in the middle of nowhere, forgotten and lost. A bit dramatic, huh? But you get the point.

Just remember, you don't need to ditch your life and become a puppet to your crush's every whim. But you should try to be a steady, reliable presence in their life to avoid being swapped out for the next shiny new thing that comes along.

At the end of the day, finding love isn't about over-the-top gestures or showering them with gifts. It's about being there, showing up, and sticking around. So, if you've found someone who makes your heart do a little happy dance, don't try to play it cool. Show them you're interested. Be there, be noticed, and be consistent.

And remember, in the fast-paced world of dating today, if you're out of sight, you're out of mind. So, unless you're cool with being a forgotten chapter in someone's love life, step up, show up, and make your mark. Who knows? You might just end up being the one who stayed and made it all worthwhile.

Until Next Time!!!

Peace, Love & Kisses,

LaTonya MeChelle

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